Job Interviews and Dating: Three Strikes You’re Out

Ask any of my friends about my dating life, and they will say that most are lucky to make it past the third date. Many find this magic number of three peculiar. However, I think it’s perfectly rational. You can usually figure out within the first 15 minutes of meeting someone if there is chemistry, a.k.a. you want to see them naked. Then, you spend the next few dates discovering if you want to learn more about them. By the end of the third date, you reach the conclusion of “that was nice” or even worse, “that was a waste of time”, and you know it’s time to call it quits and move on. However, if your curiosity is still peaked, a fourth date might be worth your wild.

Recently as I have been interviewing for a new job, and I came to the conclusion that the process for finding that perfect position – either with a mate or employment – is the same.

Like the three date rule with relationships, you usually know by the third interview if the job is right for you. Either your excitement about working with the company increases or you mark if off your list.

Think about it…

Interview #1:

You talk with the recruiter, usually over the phone, and you know right away if you could possibly see yourself working there. You don’t divulge too much on this first meeting. You feel it out to see if it’s a match.

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Interview #2:

This is when you start getting into the details of the position and discussing your background. On a date, you might talk about your past dating history and family. And if you are bored out of your mind, you try to keep a smile on your face until the end.

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Typically the 2nd interview is longer than the first, and if they don’t pass muster, a third will never happen.

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Interview #3:

By now you have a feeling that there is something there, and you spend your time really digging into the details. Trying to figure out if you can really see yourself working there and what your day-to-day will look like once the “honeymoon” stage is over.

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Of course, this is never an exact science. But if you know what you want and don’t want, the process is a lot easier.

What’s your interview process like?

Amy Higgins

Social mediaholic. Incurable content creator. Hardcore bacon nerd. Opera aficionado. Presently @TopRank Marketing Formerly @Zendesk @Concur @GoogleLocalSF

One thought on “Job Interviews and Dating: Three Strikes You’re Out

  1. I worked very hard from 2002-2007 to find a job after earning my MBA but I was only considered for entry-level jobs with no prerequisites. My interview process was to thoroughly research a company that invited me to interview; I knew its corporate history, share price, recent news, and culture. I demonstrated how hard I was willing to work because I had only three interviews in that entire time. Many recruiters said my military background made me a poor fit for jobs that required professional responsibility. I knew exactly what I wanted (a career in financial services) and what I did not want (a lifetime of unemployment). Almost everyone I met professionally told me not to bother working. I now work in finance for myself.

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